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Most parents are in shock when their children are lying, cheating, and stealing. Believe it or not, these actions are part of preschool children’s development. Children between the age of 2 and 4 have no concepts of right and wrong. Lying is their defense mechanism to protect themselves from punishment. |
Nevertheless, these types of behaviors should never be ignored or allowed. Instead, parents should teach their children about right and wrong. Do not punish your children too harsh, if they do not always tell the truth. Otherwise, they will try to get away from punishment the next time.
When your children turn six to seven years old, they should start learning the concept of right from wrong. Although they may occasionally lie to avoid punishment, lying should not be a habit. If it is, it might be a problem. Talk to school psychologists or professional help to find about why it is happening. Lying in older children may indicate emotional problems.
What To Do if A Child Or Adolescent Lies:
- Teach them about right and wrong. You have to help them understand why lying are wrong. Be a good role model by not lying yourself.
- Don’t brand your children a liar. One of the worst things that you can do is branding your children a liar. Remember, most kids don’t know any better when they lie. By belittling them, you may unintentionally create emotional scars in their lives.
- Have realistic expectations from your children. Kids lie to get away from punishment. This does not mean that you should never punish them when they do wrong. But, it is important to have realistic expectation in your children’s development. Some kids may need more time to learn than others.
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